Psychologist's blog: how to recognize unhealthy relationships in time and change the rules of the game

Psychologist's blog: how to recognize unhealthy relationships in time and change the rules of the game


We often look for evidence of whether we are loved and whether the feeling is real. And we don't even think about whether we love or only imitate passion, because fears, complexes, neurotic aspirations interfere.

But in vain. After all, there are a lot of cases when a person (more often this, unfortunately, happens to women) invents great love for himself, and then wonders why she is unhappy and why she always steps on the same rake. Here are some signs that you are not in love, but rather neurotically attached.

You find it difficult to be yourself, instead you try to play perfection in everything to get rid of problems in relationships . After "finding" at last the husband or the girl of your dreams, you are afraid to lose them. You don't want to repeat the mistakes of the previous relationship, in which you didn't look your best.

Now I will not let go of my happiness, - you think and begin to work hard. You are the best cook, an attentive listener, and an interesting conversationalist. There is no need to talk about intimate relationships. Sharon Stone smokes nervously aside compared to you.

Your partner is delighted, of course. He did not even expect to find such happiness. At first he admires, then gets used to it and begins to take everything for granted. You, tired of your unusual role and emotional overload, and not receiving the expected "gratitude", pour out irritation on your loved one.

It becomes a cold shower for him. After all, he believed that he had really met a supergirl. You feel guilty for having once again failed and failed to be perfect.

The most offensive thing is that you think that your relationship has not worked out again precisely because of your imperfection. In fact - because of the inconsistency of your idealized "I" you own real life. Instead of love, you were driven by a childish fear of abandonment. And to prevent this from happening, they say, you need to earn love.

A confident woman should ask herself whether she is good in a relationship, whether she is happy, whether she can relax, talk about any topic, or just be silent - and her beloved will understand her.




 

 


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